Family History Questions You May Not Have Thought to Ask

Want to hear the stories about your ancestors but don’t know where to begin? The ideal approach to conducting family history surveys is to ask open-ended questions (rather than yes/no questions). However, it’s far more interesting—for both you and the interviewee—to discuss the stories and emotions surrounding the events in your family’s past.

When you’re ready to conduct an interview, have follow-up questions to ensure you acquire the knowledge you need. Record the interview on audio or video wherever feasible.

You might be thinking of talking to your parents and siblings, but it is important to include grandparents, aunts, and uncles as well, as they might have the most knowledge about your ancestral history.

Here are some of the simplest questions that almost everyone can relate to:

Talk About Their Memories

Although you should ask about your lineage and your direct ancestor’s names as well, don’t just stop there. You should also ask for tales about them to learn about the types of people they were. Inquiring about occasions your relatives spent with their grandparents may bring up other ancestors. Even if no more ancestors are named, you will learn a lot about how your older relatives were as a child and what their parents were like, which is important for genealogy.

A girl is embracing her grandma.

Get Insight About Holiday Traditions

Inquiring about holiday traditions, as well as what holidays your relative’s family celebrated when they were young can reveal a lot about how your family’s heritage. It will also provide you with more information about the times your family has lived through. You may even have some ideas for past customs you’d like to reintroduce.

Make Sure To Include Childhood Memories

This will reveal what your ancestors enjoyed, as well as the type of person your ancestor was as a child. It will also inform you about the customs of the time, the norms of the area where your ancestor grew up, and the type of people they were connected with when they were younger.

If you’re looking to get better insight into your ancestral history, consult My Ireland Family Heritage, located in Ireland. We offer services like heritage tours and personalised genealogy research. In addition, we help you to trace your Irish roots—so give us a call today to learn more about our services.

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Review of My Ireland Heritage Tours Presented on Trip adviser Oct 2024 By • Family TomBarron2013 New York City, NY2

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Oct 2024 • Family

We highly recommend My Ireland Heritage for anyone who wants to learn and be guided to their Irish “roots” and much, much more. Sean Quinn and Ian Darragh of My Ireland Family Heritage have deep knowledge or the areas we wanted to visit in Meath, Sligo and Kilkenny. While we knew about one side of the family history back to 1690, there was nothing known about the other that arrived in the US in the 1870s.

Ian, Sean, and Nicola did thorough research on our localities and locations from which our ancestors left for America in 1849 and later. In addition, Ian and Sean did separate day-long “recons” in advance of our time with them, seeking out local people and the specific properties with maps and whatever records still available. Their results were absolutely outstanding! In both our cases, they found and took us to our still-existing cottages and shops from the early 1820s.

It was so enjoyable to be with Ian for three days and for a special day with Sean. Whether it was the Newgrange World Heritage sites 5,500 years old , the Battle of the Boyne 1690 , or the local cemeteries and churches of our ancestors. Ian was especially attentive to my wife throughout the travels after she twisted her ankle in a rain-soaked old cemetery.

Throughout the process of trip preparation over months to giving us the final, wonderful books of Meath and Sligo, Aisling was highly professional and responsive with all the many details. The bound books she prepared are treasures! Thanks to all for truly exceptional experiences.

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Review of My Ireland Heritage Tours Presented on Trip adviser by Shelley L @ sjlively

Exceptional in every way!

Over the last few months of preparing for our trip, every single detail was meticulously attended, not only professionally, but helpfully, and in such a friendly manner, that I felt as if I knew Sean, Aisling and Ian before I even stepped off the plane.

The amount of work these wonderful people put into our personal history is mindboggling. My mother was an avid amateur genealogist, and had worked for decades to bring to light the trail our family took, but our resources are limited.

Sean knows exactly where to look, and was able to fill in so many gaps that had eluded us for generations. Some of the information he found, unbeknownst even to him, actually solidified the findings we had amassed over the years. Ours was a family in coal mining – I only found on our tour that they had originated from a mining area, and their arrival on the  border coincided exactly with the decline in the mining industry in County Wicklow.

I would have been overjoyed simply with the knowledge of why they left when they did, about 12 years before the famine. Breaking through our brick wall of great grandparents even farther back on the family tree was a dream come true, but to be able to set foot on not only the area they lived, and find that the house is still there was overwhelming. Seeing the family church and cemetery where our ancestors and extended family still rest is a truly moving experience.

The care taken by this company in each and every aspect of the journey cannot be overstated. Only about 2 weeks prior to my trip, Sean contacted me to let me know that he had also stumbled across some of my husband’s family name in the process and included them as well in his research. How often can anyone say that they not only got what they paid for, but more than they ever imagined? I can say that. They were even kind enough to answer a few follow-up questions after my return home, as I was so stunned on my tour with Ian that I didn’t think ask at the time.If you have the opportunity to make the trip to Ireland, contact My Ireland Family Heritage before you go.

If your family was there, Sean will go above and beyond to find them. Even without family, contact them anyway. Ian is a walking encyclopedia of history, and so fun to talk to. Aisling will make sure every “I” is dotted, and every “T” is crossed.  Thank you so much for the trip of a lifetime, and the opportunity to pass on everything we have discovered to future generations

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